Before going on xmas holidays, I thought a fitting note to end on would be to put together a selection of some of the most useful frugal living tips I’ve come across during the past four years, so here goes:

- Take responsibility for your own finances. Don’t be afraid of them. Get to know them and spend some time with them! Keep a regular eye on your bank accounts and statements – it’s easy these days with internet banking access – and put together a realistic monthly budget that you can keep to. If you don’t like spread-sheets, there are plenty of online budgeting tools that you can use to keep on top of your finances.
- Learn to live within your means. It can be tough sometimes, especially in this difficult economic climate and within a culture which tries to make us buy things we don’t need and advertising which tries to make us aspire to ape the lifestyles of celebrities. But there is more to life than spending money we don’t have on things we don’t need and comfort to be found from having a bank account which is in the black rather than in the red. As I get older, I appreciate simple things more such as the company of good friends or a walk in the countryside which come for free. If your hobbies are costing you too much money, there are plenty of low cost alternatives you can switch to if you only just give it some thought and research. Why not have a day each month during which you try not to spend any money at all? There’s a challenge for you!
- Have a goal in mind. Many of us are having to save money simply because we are facing bad times but you’ll be more successful if you’re saving towards something specific. It could be a holiday, a course you want to go on or a special occasion you need to save for. Or it could just be that you want to work less and have more time to spend with your family. Whatever it is, make plans for the future and start saving towards them if you can. It will motivate you and make you feel more positive about living a more frugal lifestyle.
- Learn to haggle and always ask for a discount on a major purchase if you can. It’s something that takes getting used to if it doesn’t come naturally, but it’s nearly always worth doing. If a clothing item you want to buy has a mark on it, show it to the sales assistant and ask for some money off. If there’s something wrong with your meal (I had a meal out a while ago and found a piece of plastic in it! There was nothing wrong with the food otherwise but I got my meal for free!) ask for a discount. The worst thing that can happen is that you are unsuccessful but if you don’t ask, you don’t get. If you’re unhappy with the service you receive, always complain and ask for money back.
- Got the Good Life bug? If it’s something that interests you anyway, why not grow some of your own food at home? You don’t have to be Monty Don – it’s easy to grow tomatoes, potatoes, carrots and lettuce at home and if you don’t have a garden you can still grow them in hanging baskets, pots or grow bags. Seeds can be expensive but you can harvest your own seeds from supermarket tomatoes and peppers and exchange seeds with friends to save money. Compost can be pricey too but, if you’ve got the room, you can make your own at home by recycling grass clippings and kitchen waste. As I’ve come to know it, learning from others, living the frugal life isn’t about eating rubbish but good quality food, and nothing much compares in the quality and health stakes to fresh, home-grown grub. And, when times are hard or you’ve forgotten to go shopping, for much of the year there will always be something in the garden or your grow bag that you can add to a meal.
- Whatever people may tell you, it’s not worth skimping on everything. There is always something that it’s just a false economy to save money on. It might be a small item like your teabags (I don’t like to compromise on a good brew myself) or something bigger, like your car, a good pair of shoes or your own health. Whatever it is, don’t compromise on it. Save money elsewhere instead. Life is too short to be miserable or unsafe. Remember something which a blog user told me a while ago – living frugally isn’t just about living cheaply but living well.



