Debt and money in general is a funny thing. Most people feel incredibly embarrassed about their financial affairs, even when they are solvent. Admitting that you are in debt to a partner of loved one can be particularly traumatic. It often makes the individual in debt feel that they have somehow failed, even when their partner may be part of the reason that they are in debt.
Debt inevitably causes stress. When money is tight, it is not possible to fall back on treats to deal with the annoyances felt on a day to day basis. One of the best ways to deal with this stress is through completely honest and open communication. Sit down and work out a complete budget with all income and outgoings listed. Resist the temptation to think that your partners treats aren’t important, any spare cash should be allocated fairly and with mutual consent or the resentment will soon build up!
Now is not the time to apportion blame, communicate openly and you will soon be debt (or at least stress) free.
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