Debt advice – 5 important steps

Source:www.moneystand.co.uk

It’s time for some more debt tips! If you’re at the stage when you know you have to face up to your debt but still find the idea a bit daunting, here’s my FIVE most important Steps:

Step One:

There has to be a lightening strike when you are honest with yourself as to exactly how much trouble you are in. Sit down take a deep breath and open all the bills that are stashed away unopened because you have never dared. Write down a list and work out exactly what you owe and to whom. Read that list and cry, grieve, if you need to, and then decide that you are going to sort it.

Step Two:

Set two is tell you loved ones exactly what a mess you are in. They may be angry, shocked or disapointed to start but they will give you the emotional support you need. Once you’ve told your loved ones you will feel better – a problem shared is a problem halved as they say. Your freinds and family won’t just give you emotional support, they’ll also encorage you and help you in other ways – you just have to ask for their support.

Step Three:

Cut up the plastic and stop spending. I don’t care how hard it is or how much you ‘need’ to buy something – this is about tough love here. No excuses. Start riding your bike to work, walk the kids to school, make lunch before you leave the house, use up your tinned food and freezer food that’s just lying around instead of getting more groceries, change your mobile phone plan, anything you haven’t used for a year – put it on ebay, cancel your gym membership and get fit the old fashioned way – there are no excuses here. You CAN stop spending and you CAN make changes right now to reduce your monthly, weekly and daily budget. It’s the only way things will get better, trust me.

Step Four:

Ring a not for debt advice charity, debt advice line, or debt agency – just make sure it’s free to call first. They will not take a fee but will help you go through the options of how to go forward they will contact your creditors and will help you with a budget suitable for you circumstances. Be cautious if they sound like they are trying to sell you a debt solution – make it clear you are calling for a free intial chat about your options and are calling multiple services to get the best advice and will have to discuss it with your family/partner/friends before you choose what road to go down. When you speak to them do not feel embarrassed – they speak to thousands of people around the UK who are having some money problems.

Step Five:

Remember you are not the only person in this situation. It’s nothing to be ashamed of and now you have taken the first steps your life will seem allot easier with a weight lifted from your shoulders. Take a moment to yourself to congratulate yourself that you’re on your way. Positivity and will power is key to changing your financial situation.